How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 07:18
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why did my bipolar girlfriend split up with me?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why does a narcissist act like it's nothing when they hurt you?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Can you share the entire summary of your spiritual life?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Ask yourself:
How can I get a girlfriend? I am 26.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What is a good habit and what is bad one?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Making more friends is a goal.
Are you able to lie, even though you have Aspergers?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why is the band Nickelback unliked so much?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Does not procrastinate.
That's it for today.
What do you remember that 95% of us have forgotten?
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.